Episode 123: You’re Not Behind: Letting Go of the ‘Shoulds’ in Writing and Faith
Do you ever feel like you’re behind—as a writer, as a Christian, or just in life? Maybe you’ve caught yourself thinking, “Shouldn’t I be more spiritually mature by now?” or “Is it too late to write my book?” This mindset of being “behind” is one that many of us carry, but it’s built on ideas that don’t line up with truth.
In this episode, I unpack three root issues behind the “I’m behind” soundtrack that plays in our heads—our identity, our value system, and our tendency to compare. You’ll be reminded that God doesn’t measure progress by speed or visible success but by faithfulness. Whether you’re just starting out or have been on this journey for years, you are not behind—you are right where God has you.
In This Episode:
How our mental image of “what a real writer (or Christian) looks like” feeds feelings of being behind
The difference between cultural timelines and God’s process of growth
Why God values faithfulness over speed or output
How comparison distorts our sense of progress—and how to realign with God’s truth
Encouragement for writers who feel “late to the game”
If you’d like to dive deeper into the unbiblical mindsets that get in our way as writers, download the “Christian Writer’s Mindset Makeover”.
The Purposeful Pen is a weekly podcast for Christian writers designed to help you build a writing life with eternal impact. Each week, you’ll hear practical tips and Biblical truth on topics such as improving your writing, honing your message, and managing your time. I always respond to listener emails, and I’d love to hear from you! Amysimon@amylynnsimon.com